How do you spell “Stress”?

Reading the morning paper or listening to the news is enough to make anyone stressed out. The economy.  The uncertain marketplace.  Living on commission.  I could go on for paragraphs, but the reality is that life, yes, every day life is filled with what serves to worry and stress us out.

So what exactly is stress?  We generally use the word “stress” when we feel that everything seems to have become too much – we are overloaded and wonder whether we really can cope with the pressures placed upon us. Anything that poses a challenge or a threat to our well-being is a stress. Some stresses get you going and they are good for you – without any stress at all many say our lives would be boring and would probably feel pointless. However, when the stresses undermine both our mental and physical health they are bad*.

What can that “bad stress” do to us?  When faced with a challenge or a threat, your body activates resources to protect you – to either get away as fast as you can, or fight.  Our fight-or-flight response is our body’s sympathetic nervous system reacting to a stressful event. Our body produces larger quantities of the chemicals cortisol, adrenaline and noradrenaline, which trigger a higher heart rate, heightened muscle preparedness, sweating, and alertness – all these factors help us protect ourselves in a dangerous or challenging situation.  Non-essential body functions slow down, such as our digestive and immune systems when we are in fight-or flight response mode*.  Stress causes our blood pressure to rise, causes some of us to overeat, cardiac problems, digestive problems, you name it!  Doctors now believe stress can be an underlying factor for just about everything.

How do you get rid of stress?   Here’s a great  Self  help for treating stress*  that I just had to share:

Exercise – exercise has been proven to have a beneficial effect on a person’s mental and physical state. For many
people exercise is an extremely effective stress buster.

Division of labor  – try to delegate your responsibilities at work, or share them. If you make yourself indispensable the likelihood of your feeling highly stressed is significantly greater.

Assertiveness – don’t say yes to everything. If you can’t do something well, or if something is not your responsibility, try to seek ways of not agreeing to do them.

Alcohol and drugs – alcohol and drugs will not help you manage your stress better. Either stop consuming them completely, or cut down.

Caffeine – if your consumption of coffee and other drinks which contain caffeine is high, cut down.

Nutrition – eat plenty of fruit and vegetables. Make sure you have a healthy and balanced diet.

Time – make sure you set aside some time each day just for yourself. Use that time to organize your life, relax, and pursue your own interests.

Breathing – there are some effective breathing techniques which will slow down your system and help you relax.

Talk – talk to you family, friends, work colleagues and your boss. Express your thoughts and worries. 

Seek professional help – if the stress is affecting the way you function; go and see your doctor. Heightened stress for prolonged periods can be bad for your physical and mental health.

Relaxation techniques – mediation, massage, or yoga have been known to greatly help people with stress.

Hey fellow REALTORS, I feel your pain: TURN OFF YOUR PHONE  and relax.  Whoever calls you, will call back or leave a message.  These are little things we can do for ourselves that will help us to live longer and happier.  Do it for yourself and your family, you will feel a lot better!

Until Next Monday…

*http://www.medicalnewstoday.com

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4 Responses to How do you spell “Stress”?

  1. David Brewer says:

    Good Morning Matey,

    Thank you for the article about stress. Years ago, after reading many self-help books on personalities and emotions, it finally occurred to me that in order for me to be stressed, I actually had to accept that stress. Since then, when I think about the stress in my life, I try to decide whether this stress is worthwhile or not. The answer is usually “not”. I try very hard not to accept stress and, now and then, it actually works but now and then is a lot better than never.

    My regards,

    David

    David H. Brewer, Realtor

    Brewer, Sahm & Webb, Inc.

    Realtors & Appraisers

    1620 Wallace Avenue

    Bartow, Florida 33830

    O# 863-534-1774

    C# 863-944-7197

    F#…866-713-3005

    David.BrewerSahmWebb@verizon.net

  2. Bonnie Guevin says:

    Great article. I agree with David, we don’t need to take on the stress, but it is sometimes very difficult in our busy lives. Thanks for sharing this Matey.

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